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Cadi Gwiddon 🏳️‍⚧️🏴‍☠️🏳️‍🌈I will save the deconstruction of the western relationship norms as a product of the insecure patriarchy and a tool of oppression for another essay. Suffice it to say western relationship norms are binding, usually heavy with expectations and rules, limiting, and at their base line: unhealthy. A lot of the default rules and restrictions come from the mononormative patriarchal back drop in which we exist, and are in place so the ones in power don't have to do any self work or growth to "keep" their spouse. (The use of mononormative ownership language is an intentional jab)But we don't have to be bound by those rules. We have braved ego death, we are free intentional beings, we can co-create our connections with partners however we want. We are brilliant motes of star fire encountering each other in a space of possibility.Agency, growth, respect. These are the foundations of an adult relationship, a true connection. These are only possible if the other person is in a healthy relationship with all the parts of themself first. If the other person is not in touch with their will or higher self they can't form boundaries or ask for needs bc they don't know what they want out of life.I don't think it is healthy to be in a relationship with a person who is not self-assured, an unintentional being, someone who has not experienced ego death, doesn't live intentionally, or at the minimum isn't self-aware.Living intentionally is hard work, it takes energy to focus on the Now, to resist the automatic behaviors and limiting thoughts that are socialized or habituated into us.An intentional person in relationships doesn't worry about the other person leaving or loving someone else. An intentional person is greatful and present for all moments no matter how wonderful or awful; All moments have something to teach us.<a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/IntentionalLife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#IntentionalLife</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Relationships</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/Agency" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Agency</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/EgoDeath" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#EgoDeath</a>

Cadi Gwiddon 🏳️‍⚧️🏴‍☠️🏳️‍🌈The Tower & The StarOne must accept death in order to truly live.The concept of a relationship as having expectations, as having any rules, as bonds, must dissolve in order for your partner to have real agency.Each partner must accept that the relationship is over before it can begin.Each person is a solar system surrounding the brilliant star 🌟 of their divine spark, they can not be contained.If you shine bright enough, you won't have to worry about your loved ones leaving.In this essay I will...<a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/Musing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Musing</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Relationships</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/Poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Poly</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/Polyamoury" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Polyamoury</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/RA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#RA</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/Agency" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Agency</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/Essay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Essay</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/EgoDeath" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#EgoDeath</a>

PlanetMedicinesExploring the transformative potential of out-of-body experiences: A pathway to enhanced empathy (Weiler, et al, 2024) <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0149763424002331?via%3Dihub" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0149763424002331?via%3Dihub</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/obe" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#obe</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/psychedelic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#psychedelic</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/psychedelics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#psychedelics</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/consciousness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#consciousness</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/ketamine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ketamine</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/nde" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#nde</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/egodeath" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#egodeath</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/psychedelicexperience" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#psychedelicexperience</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/psychedelicmentalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#psychedelicmentalhealth</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/mentalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#mentalhealth</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/empathy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#empathy</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/dmn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dmn</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/defaultmodenetwork" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#defaultmodenetwork</a>

PlanetMedicines<a href="https://psychedelicmentalhealth.net/spotlight-on-maslows-forgotten-pinnacle-self-transcendence/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://psychedelicmentalhealth.net/spotlight-on-maslows-forgotten-pinnacle-self-transcendence/</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/psychedelic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#psychedelic</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/mentalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#mentalhealth</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/psychedelics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#psychedelics</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/egodeath" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#egodeath</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/blackfoot" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#blackfoot</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/psychedelictherapy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#psychedelictherapy</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/ketaminetherapy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ketaminetherapy</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/psychedelicexperience" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#psychedelicexperience</a>

Ghostrunner<a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/egodeath" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#egodeath</a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/meme" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#meme</a>

Coach Pāṇini ®<a href="https://mstdn.social/@DrJackBrown" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@DrJackBrown</a> Schadenfreud for <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/EgoDeath" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#EgoDeath</a>.

PlanetMedicines<a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0149763424002331" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0149763424002331</a> Exploring the transformative potential of out-of-body experiences: A pathway to enhanced empathy (Weiler, et al, 2024) <a href="https://toad.social/tags/ketamine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ketamine</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/psychedelic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#psychedelic</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/obe" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#obe</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/outofbodyexperience" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#outofbodyexperience</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/emergencephenomena" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#emergencephenomena</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/empathy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#empathy</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/egodeath" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#egodeath</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/egodissolution" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#egodissolution</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/psychedelics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#psychedelics</a> <a href="https://toad.social/tags/NeuroScience" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#NeuroScience</a>

Doja Cat6. Ego Death<a href="https://popindustry.org/tags/TheDilemmaTheory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#TheDilemmaTheory</a> <a href="https://popindustry.org/tags/DC3" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#DC3</a> <a href="https://popindustry.org/tags/EgoDeath" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#EgoDeath</a>

Coach Pāṇini ®<a href="https://mastodon.social/@tokeriis" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@tokeriis</a> <a href="https://mathstodon.xyz/@taatm" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@taatm</a> It’s essentially a <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/WarEconomy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#WarEconomy</a> model, but yeah. This deep capitalistic extractive and wealth transfer mode is also what defeated European fascism the last time. The difference is this time, 15% of the <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/American" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#American</a> people who are <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/AntiNormie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#AntiNormie</a> have no shame and are pot-committed, lest they suffer <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/EgoDeath" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#EgoDeath</a>.

forrestno one is going to believe me but i am playing a <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/HENTAI" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#HENTAI</a> GAME to <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/challenge" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#challenge</a> myself and my boundaries; 1) i've never done it before ("yeah, right, perv") and 2) kinda exciting to mix this type of sensation with computer games and <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/EgoDeath" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#EgoDeath</a>-y if i stick with it, i will likely be writing a piece critiquing Japan's culture on stuff like this and other <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/BigBads" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#BigBads</a> that many are not willing to engage with. OR i'll get bored and do something else.

Mx. Luna CorbdenWorking on the Ego & Ego Death chapter today, starting just from notes, not even an outline. Most of my recent work up till now has been reviewing/editing existing chapters to reload my brain splines. So I'm shifting gears. I haven't thought about ego in a long time. I need to come at this by sitting on a porch somewhere overdoing it with a joint for several hours. Thankfully I do have some notes from previous such sessions. <a href="https://defcon.social/tags/ScriptureWriting" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ScriptureWriting</a> <a href="https://defcon.social/tags/Ego" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Ego</a> <a href="https://defcon.social/tags/EgoDeath" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#EgoDeath</a>

Michael KazarnowiczI'm in the process of moving over from Medium to Substack (mostly because I want to be able to offer everything without paywalls). It'll allow me to clean out all the stuff about marketing and social media that isn't relevant anymore. That can live in the mausoleum Medium will become."A theory about 'ego death' and narcissism" is one I'll keep: <a href="https://plantser.substack.com/p/a-theory-about-ego-death-and-narcissism" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://plantser.substack.com/p/a-theory-about-ego-death-and-narcissism</a><a href="https://unstraight.club/tags/psychedelics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#psychedelics</a> <a href="https://unstraight.club/tags/consciousness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#consciousness</a> <a href="https://unstraight.club/tags/egoDeath" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#egoDeath</a>

Tracing OwlsTopics I bring up on the show all the time: <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/Gaia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Gaia</a> <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/Archetypes" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Archetypes</a> <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/CollectiveUnconscious" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#CollectiveUnconscious</a> <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/BettyAndreasson" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#BettyAndreasson</a> <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/FatSuckingVampires" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#FatSuckingVampires</a> <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/Hoaxes" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Hoaxes</a> <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/ThePhilipExperiment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ThePhilipExperiment</a> <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/Egregores" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Egregores</a> Killer <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/Horses" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Horses</a> <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/Popobawa" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Popobawa</a> <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/Animism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Animism</a> <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/Co" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Co</a>-Creation <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/GrayBarker" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#GrayBarker</a> <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/EgoDeath" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#EgoDeath</a> <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/Multicellularity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Multicellularity</a> <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/Fungi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Fungi</a> and <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/Algae" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Algae</a> <a href="https://weirdo.network/tags/Poop" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Poop</a>

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