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"Your kink is not my kink, but your kink is OK" — that is a general truth about most kinks.

But some kinks are not OK.

As always during the #Easter days a.k.a. #EasterBerlin #LeatherFetishWeek and #Folsom, #Berlin becomes the world capital of #gay #fetish #kink. Fine with me.

But if your kink involves #crueltyToAnimals, your kink is not OK.

If you love #leather, make sure it is #vegan. Thank you!

Have #sexy days in Berlin and I wish you a wonderful #resurrection!

#GutenMorgen liebe #Mastodonier und #Fediverser,

es ist Freitag, der 18. April 2025. Die #Sternzeit beträgt -37706 (ab dem ersten Warp Flug von Zefran Cochrane, 2063), bzw. -297706 (ab TNG, 2323). Wir befinden uns auf der Plattform lsbt.me, im Internet des Planeten Erde, im System Sol, in der Milchstraße (Sagittarius A*), im Universum.

Wir haben aktuell 212 User. Diese haben bisher 37540 Tröts geschrieben. Das sind 177.08 Tröts pro Rüssel.

Es folgt die Weisheit des Tages:

Im Alltag siegt das Dringende über das Wichtige.

-- Jean Remy von Matt

Mastodon, gehostet auf lsbt.meDeutscher LSBT Mastodon ServerDiese Mastodon-Instanz ist für alle* die LGBT+ oder Allies sind. Ein Safe Space für Dich! Betrieben von Christin Löhner, selbst trans Frau und Aktivistin für LSBT+ Rechte. #lsbt #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtiq
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@ecuradio grindr which is a very popular #gay hookup #app is just the poster child enshittification. Endless #ads for everything and still begging for a membership fee...that doesn't remove the ads. And it's very expensive. And it's not as though they providing an overly mainstream product that is expensive to run. People with niche fetishes run their own sites in their basement all the time and do quite well without excessive monitization. It's the capitalist more is better, bigger is better

Lgbtqia.space is a cute Mastodon server for all LGBTQIA ppl out there that want a caring and safe environment. If you are part of the LGBTQIA community you are very cordially invited to join this server.

:Fediverse: lgbtqia.space

You can find out more at lgbtqia.space/about or contact the admin @mcp

Mastodon hosted on lgbtqia.spaceLGBTQIA.SpaceThis is a cute server for all LGBTQIA ppl out there that want a caring and safe environment. If you are part of the LGBTQIA community you are very cordially invited to join this server.

#GutenMorgen liebe #Mastodonier und #Fediverser,

es ist Donnerstag, der 17. April 2025. Die #Sternzeit beträgt -37708.7 (ab dem ersten Warp Flug von Zefran Cochrane, 2063), bzw. -297708.7 (ab TNG, 2323). Wir befinden uns auf der Plattform lsbt.me, im Internet des Planeten Erde, im System Sol, in der Milchstraße (Sagittarius A*), im Universum.

Wir haben aktuell 211 User. Diese haben bisher 37491 Tröts geschrieben. Das sind 177.68 Tröts pro Rüssel.

Es folgt die Weisheit des Tages:

Der aus dem gemeinen kriechenden Stand Emporgekommene will stolz sein
und kann es nicht, und ihm entfährt immer Höflichkeit gegen die alten
Gegenstände.

-- Jean Paul

Mastodon, gehostet auf lsbt.meDeutscher LSBT Mastodon ServerDiese Mastodon-Instanz ist für alle* die LGBT+ oder Allies sind. Ein Safe Space für Dich! Betrieben von Christin Löhner, selbst trans Frau und Aktivistin für LSBT+ Rechte. #lsbt #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtiq

"Queer theory, as a body of ethics, values and ideas, has no truck with the essentialist argument. A queer theorist would not argue that "Sexuality X is natural (and so normal) because it is an inherent, essential characteristic of an organism". This, ironically, would put said theorist at odds with some queers who "explain" their queerness by recourse to exactly such an essentialist argument. Sometimes in comments I have posted on social media I have had one or two gay people angrily remonstrating with me if I have said that gayness (I would say the same of transness) is not an inherent biological characteristic of a human being (or, in fact, of anything else). I myself tend towards more social (although not entirely social) answers. These people seem to find an all-consuming value in the idea that they are gay (or trans) simply because they were born gay (or trans) where "gay" (or "trans") is a built-in biological feature they can do nothing about in the same way as they can do nothing about the chromosomes they received either. Essentially, they are saying they are gay and/or trans robots who cannot defeat their genetic pre-programming much like most others are heterosexual and cis robots in exactly the same "locked in" situation.

People like me, however, see all this as a fiction - even if some see it as a necessary fiction - and there are obviously people in the world who do not like to be told that they are
believing a useful story - because they don't like the idea that what they are believing is a "story" in the first place. Instead, they want to believe that other most useful of stories that the story they believe in is real, material, part of the fabric of matter itself. But this is
not queer. This is simply an appeal to nature as authority. It is what Alan Moore has called "Nazi science" in that all eugenicists anywhere ever have thought that people just were things essentially and so that, therefore, what we need to do is eradicate the ones we don't like and keep the ones we do. When you make people into a thing, in their very fabric, you condemn them to a fate (nature) complete with a past and a future and a set of its meanings and values. This is nature as a determinative script. But is that something we should want to do? Should we want to naturalise and essentialise sexuality and gender into things? Or is the queer thing to do in the context of a wild, feral nature of experience something else entirely, something more "natureculture" as (theorist) Donna Haraway puts it?"

(From "Queer" in my book "Black Seeds" - see pinned)